My bestfriend needs help she so depressed she cant stop crying !

My friend has a boyfriend and last night she met a really nice guy that she has a thing with. She wants to break up with her boyfriend not for the guy she met just because she doesn’t like him and she never really liked him at the start when he asked her out! She is to scarred to break up with him because he means a lot to her and she doesn’t want to loose him as a friend (cause they use to be best friends) plus she always says to me “he always asks to do stuff with me” and my friends isn’t ready fro this and she just thinks that the only reason why he is going out with her is to do stuff with her!. Because last time they went out nothing happened and he dumped her the he asked her out again because they did something ! what does she doo?

Answer #1

it’s what makes her happy. the pleasure side of it (which I personaly enjoy) is good and all but it is what makes her happy. if he is going out with her just so he can “have fun” she should dump him. but if she wants to keep him as a friend she can do it lightly by just saying something like “I think we should just be friends. what we have is great but I just think we would be better off as friends so we can stay like that and be in eachothers lifes for ev insted of breaking up in the long run violently”. if she does break up with him don’t go for the other guy straight away. leave it a week or to (whilst watching who else has their eyes on him) and then go for it. it’s all a case of what ever makes her happy.

good luck.

Answer #2

I don’t know what to do right now, but if he dumps her again because they didn’t do anything then I wouldn’t get back together with him if he asks her out again

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