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I think I am carrying my affair's baby

Hi! I’m married for 7 years with 1 child. I’m currently pregnant & I suspect it’s my affairs baby. My affair wants me to keep the baby but I’m so confused. What if this is my husbands baby & not my affair. My affair is married with 3 kids & both of know that we will not give up our family live. Pls advice…what should I do…Anyway I can’t go for abortion cause already 6 mths pregnant.

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Answer #1

You cant do anything can you but you have got yourself into a real pickle. This baby will never know its biological father or siblings if it is your affairs and if you tell the child when its an adult it will proberbly hate you for not telling them sooner. On the other hand if you do tell his and your current family then neither will be happy and you will need a whole lot of counciling to get over what has happened. If your hubby is a generous man he may be able to care for the child as his own but you have decieved him and he may not be the forgiving type. I would if I were you get a dna test done after the baby is born and go from there. You cant do much about it now so try not to stress because that will just make you sick. Deal with this as it happens. 1, Baby gets born get DNA test done. 2, If positive its your hubbys dont say anything at all. 3, If it is your affairs child you should really be an adult and face the concequences head on. If it is your husbands I would be staying away from this temptation (affair) and get on with your life so this doesnt happen again.

Answer #2

ask your doc the conception date and try to add things up…

Answer #3

well it does cause a lot of problems between your affairs marrige as well im sure his wife would be dec=vastated if she found out probably even youur husband. thats why you shouldnt cheat when your married as ty sais, once you get the blood test you can work it out from there ask your husband if hes willing to take care of the kid weather it be his or not

Answer #4

Well you cant do anything till the baby is born, once it is born you can get a DNA test find out whose baby it is… Once you figure out whose baby it is you can proceed from there… Although I dont know how many options you have, if neither of you will get divorced…

Answer #5

Regard this baby as your affair’s and husband’s common baby, and that’s all. If you live this type of life, then the baby comes from this life. There is no reason to feel confused.

Answer #6

Theres no way of finding out until the baby is born - so I guess you’ll find out then, and maybe… just maybe you’ll learn a lesson.

Answer #7

That’s what you get. I hope your marriage ends. And yea, you should feel bad, exactly how do you think your kids are going to look at you now?

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