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Much Needed Help - Fingering?

I’m 14 and my boyfriend is 16. We’ve been dating for almost two months now, and he always talks about how if I were to give him a hand job, he’d have to pay me back by fingering me. We’ve talked about it, joking around.. And he’s said things like “You do shave, don’t you?” Well I don’t. I’ve heard you can get bad razor burn, and I think bumps would be more of a turn off than hair. So if I do decide to shave, and we get in the mood, does it hurt? And what exactly is an orgasm and how do I know if I’m having one?

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You need to talk to your folks about this one. Listen, you are way too young to be concerned with “jobs”. This is exactly how teen girls get unwanted pregnancies. One thing leads to another and before you know it, your expecting. Heres what I mean: you are asking about sexuality (which is good) but it can be bad at your age. You have a lot of childhood left, enjoy it! Shaving will hurt, eventually. You may want to research on the internet how to shave (Im assuming you dont want to ask your mom?!) Does fingering hurt? I guarantee that he will do it wrong and it will hurt you! Orgasms? You WILL have no DOUBT when you have on of these! Orgasms are different for each individual, so saying this or that is what one feels like would be wrong. Good luck and use protection!

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