I lost my Mom nine months ago and it hurts!

yea, I lost someone very very very close to my heart to a month ago, but think of it this way, at least you will see her later in the future when everybody goes to their right place when the world comes to an end, and you can live all of eternity with her! atleast she is in a better place!!! right?!?!?!?!dont worry! she is in gods hands now and is looking down on you now! she knows that you love her, so you dont have to worry! nothin is going to happen, but I know that you are hurting right now, and so am I, and yes, it will take time, because she is your mother, but thats ok to grieve and be sad for her! just let it out! shes your mother! you love her, right! well, im still upset to, but you will stop feeling like that hopefully soon! its not good to let your heart break so much like that, because im sure she wants you to love her still, but go on with life, because you will see her soon! hope you feel better soon! God be with you and your mother and hte rest of your family!

from THE PROPHET: Kahlil Gibran

Almitra spoke, saying, We would ask now of Death, And He said:

You would know the secret of death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life? The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.

If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.

In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond; And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring. Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.

Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour. Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?

Yet is he not mindful of his trembling? For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?

And what is it to cease breathing but to free the breath from its restless tides that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?

Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountain top, you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.

you are just going to have to let it go and get over it then it would be ruining your life dont keep it held up in your body

dont be ashamed to grieve… its not something that is going to be easy to get over and it will always be a part of your life but she is happier, she is safe and isnt in any pain she is in a better place but although you cant see her or touch her or do any of the things you did with her when she was alive…she is still with you and she will always be with you… dont bottle the feelings up it will only cause you more pain…