Mom's Boyfriend

sit down and tell your mom how you feel about these unnecessary rules if she cares about you she will put a stop to this

Just look away when you see him. My dad is the same way. If he thinks I’m using an aditude then e grounds me for a week. Like this week, Yesterdy I droped the remote by him sohe could chang the chanle s ohe thought I was using a aditude so I’m grounded for a week. I gget to play on the computer and stuff today because I helped him clean.

This is such a difficult thing. I don’t believe he has any right to control you in a parental way. I’ve had step kids for 18 years and I still do not consider myself their mother. Any disciplinng is handled by their dad, and I am there for the nice times with them. I don’t see how it can work any other way…

You need to talk to your mom about this. Also try and arm yourself before-hand. See if you can do some reading on step families and the dynamics that occur within them, and how difficult it can be for everyone involved. Its not an easy thing and other peoples experiences can be helpful. After you’ve talked to your mom, maybe talk to both of them and try not to alienate him too much. He may be way out of his depth. Does he even have kids of his own?

what you just wrote here you need 2 tell your mom and talk 2 her about it like how you feel

he doesn’t have any kids and he like t EVERYTHING about me

tell him that you need space, and that if he doesn’t back off, you will just be FORCED to disobey all his rules