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Should i say yes to meeting with my bf?

The other day I was going to end it with him in a text. Before I could send he called me say sorry and he doesn’t want things to end. So Friday he wants to get together hang out all day with each other and talk about what’s been going on with us. I told him that I need to think about it.

Its been almost two days sense I chatted with him. Should I see what he has to say about our relationship? I do somewhat still have feelings for him.

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Answer #1

Well here’s the thing, do you want things to work out with this guy or not? Here’s the two likely outcomes that will happen.

A. You continue your relationship with him on the whim that maybe this time he might spend more time with you which means you might get what you want or you might not get it. You could be back here again and honestly, it’s not a good feeling to make the same mistake twice.

B. You could honestly end it with him and tell him that he had his chance to spend time with you and if he wants you now then he should have expressed that a while ago by spending time with you instead of now because sometimes, it’s seriously too late to get what you want.

If you are going to go see him, which I guess wouldn’t hurt, and you’re thinking about going on with this relationship then make it very clear to him that if he doesn’t make time for you then it’ll be over whether he likes it or not. If he really wants to keep you, he’ll find some way of making time for you and if he doesn’t then good riddance.

Cheers and good luck :)

Answer #2

i think you should just see what he has to say unless u just dont wanna be with him then dont ha i think you dont have anything to lose by just seeing what he has to say

Answer #3

I’ve kind of been there in the same situation in the very same relationship I am in right now a few years ago. I completely agree with Miguel. I went to talk to him to hear what he had to say, decided to give a second chance because I loved him but not without an ultimatum stating that certain things needed to be stopped otherwise, we’re through once and for all.

I think it wouldn’t hurt to go see him to hear what he has to say, if you do, make sure you get to say everything you’ve wanted to say to him. Decide then, depending on your feelings for him (if you have any substantial feelings for him) if he deserves a second chance, or if you want to give him one. Make sure you give him an ultimatum, make it clear that if he does not make any efforts in the relationship this second time, things are ending for good.

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