What if I'm in love with my cousin?

Lolz nasty. But if she wants it and you want it , then I don’t care just like I don’t care if GAYs marry gays . As long as your happy then keep doing what you do, LOve is love at the end of the day

There are 18 states in USA that allow cousins to get married. SO, that must mean its not wrong. Besides, you should be able to freely chose who you are in love with, and if its your cousin (and judging fr/ what you wrote it sounds like she’s in love with you too), then so what? Go for it, and ignore anyone that tells you to not be together. Good luck!

I been dating my 4th cousn for about 8 months but its thourgh marrige with our family and both of them pass away so my friend told me we not even blood now since they pass on. its not like dating your first os sec and 3rd cousin thats sick

I think you are in the mood.Sorry but don’t have another word for it.

I love my cousin sooo much with the fact he is adopted do you think I shall continue?

WELL I DONT THINK THIS IS A GOOD IDEA BECAUSE THIS IS FAMILY! I MEAN PEOLPE DO IT BUT SOMETHING DOWN THE LINE IS WRONG! YOU DONT SLEEP WITH FAMILY! IT’S WRONG! IF YOU FEEL LIKE THIS IS A RIGHT THING TO DO YOUR GONNA FIND YOURSELF IN TROUBLE! IM SURE YOU DONT WANT THAT! I MEAN TROUBLE WITH THE LAW! TRUST ME I NO!

If Yurr in love wid yur cuzen yu shud gow fur et but don’t gow to farr away like sex ..don’t let anyone know err things will gow wrong, but also love is something special yu feel towards a person don’t let that fxk up yerr life .give it a try ef et don’t work den fxcket moree plenty of oda chix &&guys

if you spend a lot of time with ur cousin its totally normal to have a crush on her she doesnt live with u so u dont think of her as a sister but you see her a lot so she becomes your best friend (i kno ive been there too) youll never stop loving ur cousin but you will move on physically and emotionally youll meet another girl that goes to ur school or something and ull fall for her

familiy is a lot like window shopping

you can look and want, but you cant have it!

hope that helped!

son i dont know who you are but seek help this is unhealthy your cousin is family im not trying to critsize you but it is just wrong you have to find a girl outside of your family if you were to plesure your cousin or whatever your children would suffer they would most likely comeout with mental retardation i cant say no more if thats how you really fell then go for it but im telling you its wrong regardless of how you feel yeah so you get horny well im a guy i do to but i would never think about banging my cousin you can find a girlfriend outside of the family ..

If everytime you see her you want to give her pleasure, means you are in lust , not love!!

I believe its your oppinion as to whether its wrong or not, thats up to your morals and your upbringing

I been dating my 4th cousn for about 8 months but its thourgh marrige with our family and both of them pass away so my friend told me we not even blood now since they pass on. its not like dating your first os sec and 3rd cousin thats sick

Everyone will have their own personal opinion on this subject, but you are only rating people on what YOU want to hear.

Its true, you cant control your feelings, but you dont act on every impulse you have, thats what you do have control over! Just because you have feelings for a certain person, doesnt mean you have to act on those feelings. Would you act on those feelings if someone you liked was involved with another person, or even married? Thats the difference between maturity, and impulse, and knowing whats right, and whats wrong!

Just because shes your cusion doesn’t mean you can’t be with her if you want to. If you want to know if she likes you then go ahead and ask her. If it doesn’t work out, there is plenty more fiSh in the sea, and time will help heaL your hurt.

And please dont take account of what other members opinions are on this site regarding you and your cusion. At the end of the day you can’t control who you have fellings for and if it feels right then follow your heart.

Hope I helped.

I don’t see what the problem is. If you want to be with your cousin, go for it.

Filletofspam took the words out of my mouth. Most people fail to realize that outside of America, cousin/cousin relationships are normal and legal. Even in America, it’s legal for you to marry her in many states! So anyone who tries to tell you that you’re sick or need help is just ignorant and narrow minded.

being in love with your own cousin is just sick but wow does your parents know about this i think that you should like really go talk to your parents then talk to your cousin. are u older than her and does she feel the same way bout u , is she even your blood cousin or u just call her your cousin, besides the point u calll someone part of your family so u know . and if she is not your real cousin and u are in love with gher then u should just stop calling her that… i hope i answered your cousin

The prohibition between marriage between 1st cousins is very much an Americanism. Marrying 1st cousins is legal in all of Europe, Canada, and Mexico. In America it is legal in 26 of the 50 states. If you live in a state where marriage is illegal between 1st cousins you can marry in one of the states where it is legal and your state will recognise the marriage. Worldwide 20% of all marriages are between 1st cousins. In the Bible marriage between cousins was common.

I don’t know if your cousin is your soul mate but it is possible. Don’t let prejudice keep you from persuing this possibility.

Also, there is little difference in the rate of birth defects from 1st cousin couples and unrelated couples. Relations between 1st cousins are not considered incestuous.

Nothing wrong with incest so long as you keep it in the family. I had sexual relations with my first cousin; we were forced into it by our families. After we separated she married a stranger and her children have some genetic deformity. By the way, when I started reading this column I assumed Hermione was a girl. If that is the case I can see no objection whatever, on any grounds. Enjoy, I say.

I been dating my 4th cousn for about 8 months but its thourgh marrige with our family and both of them pass away so my friend told me we not even blood now since they pass on. its not like dating your first os sec and 3rd cousin thats sick

maybe ur just horny?

It depends. I love my cousin but he’s like my 12th or something like that. First cousins though! I’m sorry but it’s not right. Maybe there’s someone else out there. Keep your dating chances open though. You never know.

No you can’t be with your consin because this is INCEST and INCEST IS WRONG! How would you like if your daughter was in love with the son of your brother or the son of your sister? (Keep in mind that the son of your brother or the son of your sister are the consin of your daughter and they are in the same familly because of that). As a familly man how would you feel or as a mother (I don’t know if you are a man or a women) to tolerate incest under your roof? And not only that when you practice incest this can give birth to children with handicap (retards). So NO man! Remove those thougths about having a relationship with your cousin this is not good!

look i jus wana say dat love is love no matter who in da world is against it…if u r judgemental think of this adam and eve were da only 2 humans god made…how did all of these billions of people come to be? huh tell me those of u that r against cousins being together or any family being together? explain how with only adam and eve everyone came to be? u cant can u because there had to be incest as well back then. now that people know what incest is its wrong. no one can tell u who to love no one can force their heart to love someone they dont love your heart chooses who u fall in love with u cant force ur heart to love someone else. and if god wanted u to love someone else do u think he might have stopped u from fallin for ur cousin? i think so i love god i praise god and i kno god loves me no matter what he made me da way i am he made everyone 1 of a kind and he knows ahead of time who u will fall for and who will hurt u and he knos wen u die so who eva says incest is wrng u must have hidden desires for a family member and are trying 2 hide it but guess what incest isnt wrng. whats wrong is judgin when da only one dat can judge is god who made everyone