Masturbation/Tampons

ok well im a 16 year old girl and I get turned on by some things really easily lol but I’ve never masturbated and I’ve never done anything sexual with a guy..well besides making out. I was just curious if I should be masturbating.. I have a boyfriend and im afraid that if he wants to finger me at some point that it will hurt really bad because I havnt done anything down there.. I’ve thought about masturbating before but im to afraid that ill do something wrong and mess something up and it just seems gross lol. I’ve never used a tampon either.. I’ve wanted to because pads are really annoying and uncomfortable sometimes but I havnt been able to try to use one.. would it still fit even though nothings been done down there? because it just seems like the hole is small. is there an easy way to put a tampon in? is there a wrong way?

Answer #1

follow the directions on the box for tampons.. it may be uncomfortable doing it the first time or two but youll get used to it. you dont have to think its gross masturbating, tons of people do it, probably more than you think. youll probably be nervous the first time your boyfriend touches you but if he takes it slow and you let him know if he hurts you, everything should be fine.. and probably pleasurable. you cant really mess anything up if u just touch yourself and explore down below. you should kno how far to push your own limits. just do w/e your comfortable with.. its normal and healthy to masturbate and explore your body. give it a try.

Answer #2

well xchelsey is right it wont hurt to explore. but on the other hand dont be pressured inbto doing anything your not comfy with just because you think it will hurt the first time your bf touches you. im not a doctor but i know that no matter if youve done anything or not it dpends on how gentle your partner is with you. dont let him rush you. do whatever on your own terms be the boss let him know when it hurts. as for masturbation its ok if you want to start but just dont start for him, do it for you.

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