Married Sex life

i was married for nine years and my x-husand now never wanted to have sex and i always did. i love sex. the point is not always is it the woman that doesnt want the sex it is also the man. you can suggestion a late nite date away from home and the kids if there is any so that it is time alone and quality time for the both of you only. there is a probability that she is feeling less attractive (gained too much weight) or to tired because she works and then comes home to do all the household responsibilities and then tend the kids this will surely kill a sexual drive if the significant other is not helping out with his 50% share of house n kids responsibility. if that aint it then you both need to talk about it. maybe she is tired of the old sex routine change it up rent porns, play dressup n act out a seduction play or change the sex setting from the bedroom to the bathroom, in the kitchen, on stairs, in the car, in the garage on top of the washing machine when its turned on oooooooooooh the sensations!! you get my drift…if you are only into the rooster on a hen sex position - “huston we have a problem!!!” no wonder she dont like to have sex. try to be seductive and make love to her in sloooooow motion for me babe!! maybe she is tired of the rough sex play all the time - i dont know what else to tell but if it aint none of the above go to marriage counceling…hope this helps

well im a woman, and im the sex crazy one with us. so i guess its the person not the sex of the person, all thow some women do thing they allready baged the man so thay dont feel they have to have sex all the time anymore

Oh I have been there! My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years and it has only been in the last year that he has been able to control himself from orgasm at will. It has made a complete and total change in our sex life because now I get to truly experience the pleasure for more than 2 minutes! We have both been shocked at the intensity and duration of my orgasms,and that it happens more than once! So I guess my answer is yes, it could be his age. I have always loved sex and with age and maturity I am much more confident in myself sexually and that shines through in a positive way into my everyday life…..

NO…NOT AT ALL ACTUALLY ITS THE OTHER WAY AROUND FOR ME. I’VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 3 YEARS AND I WANT IT MORE THAN THE HUBBY. HE DOESN’T LAST LONG AND HE USE TO BE ABLE TO GO FOR MORE ROUNDS. NOW HE STILL DOESN’T LAST LONG AND AFTER THE FIRST ROUND HE’S DONE… I CAN’T TAKE IT. ITS COME TO THE POINT WHERE ALL I DO IS WATCH PORN AND MASTURBATE ALL THE TIME. I WANT IT AND NEED IT BUT I DON’T KNOW WHAT THE PROBLEM IS. HE SAYS I’M JUST WAY TO HORNY. IS THAT POSSIBLE. I WON’T FORGET TO MENTION I’M 21 YEARS OLD AND HE’S 25 YEARS OLD. IS THAT NORMAL FOR HIM AT HIS AGE?

Well, I’m 22 years old. I am separated from my husband who is a lot much older than me ( 26yrs). Yeah, what an age difference! We were married for least than a year when the problem started. I was the one who didn’t want sex all the time. It was because we would always do what he wanted not what I wanted as well. So, it made me feel like our marriage was all about sex. I never cheated on him but he was always chatting and calling other women. I now feel that the above statement could have played part in my feelings on sex. Maybe you and your wife should sit down an talk about what each other wants sexually from one another.

Well depends on alot of things. Does she work? do you have kids? She may be too tired for more then twice a week, and I’m not trying to take her side. If this is a sudden drop for her, then I would suggets to her that she see a doctor. He/she can go over things with her to see if there is an underlying reason medically. Have you talked to her?. If you have the need for more sex during the week, I would suggest masturbating it will lessen that urge for you.