Should I bury my husband's affair?

Well I’m coming from the other women side. I was dating this guy he got married and still wanted to date me so me being stupid i did. He told his wife he would no longer see me and she believ it. he also changed his num but. He stilled called me, I never called him, he would still come see me when he was not with her or the kids. I would let him answer the phone when she called. SO DONT BELIVE THAT BECAUSE IF THE OTHER WOMEN IS WILLING TO LET HIM DO IT HE WILL CONTINUE BECAUSE SHE WILL WAIT ON HIM AND REMEMBER SHE IS USE TO NOT SEEING HIM EVERYDAY SO WHEN HE CALLS SHE IS HAPPY

You should get rid of him, i know you have been married a long time but you said yourself theres no passion, just because theres no passion doesnt mean he shouldnt go off with someone else. Why let a man treat you like that? Get shot of him and enjoy your life you dont need him bringing you down. And the business side of things - buy him out or sell your half. meet new people and find that passion again. Im sure your kids would understand after all their grown ups to. Make yourself happy!

Sounds like he has control over your emotions. No one can tell you how you should feel, or how you should deal with a cheating partner. Would he be able to bury your affair if the tables were turned? I fully believe…”once a cheater, always a cheater”. How would you be able to trust him again, or believe what he is telling you? No one can tell you what to do…But staying with him would be like telling him it was ok to cheat.