How to make him see he needs to spend more time with us?

Yeah what you have to do is pretty much just tell him you need him… and we need to spend time together you just really neeed to talk to him tell him how you feel! tell him that you miss him you and the baby!!!

To stephanie… she gives aWFUL advice cant believe she is a advisor!! she is being ignorant to teen parents saying that you are not making it when obvisouly you said up there you was and you just didnt want you husband working soo much.

But as I said just PLease try talking to him… it just might make a difference… Hope the best for you 2!!

Good luck

hey well I think that your man is trying to make everytning betetr for you guys and you have to tell him that you appreciate him. you guys need the money and well this is only untill you finish college then you could work your a*s of too lol joke,

thank you for the advice. stephanie obviously you didnt read my post very accurately. I can afford to pay the bills and take care of my child… that is not the problem. I am very mature… and am ready for marriage… obviously… he just works too much, and is never home.

This is just as much your fault as it is his. You are 18-years-old, you both rushed things way to fast. So, now its going to just be problems all the time. Thats what happens, you were in such a rush to grow up so I guess your going to have to deal with it. I’m 18-years-old… I wouldn’t be able to move out and afford bills, I wouldn’t be able to support a child, I’m not mature enough for marriage (I’ve been with my boyfriend since I was 14-years-old)… and neither are you. Move back in with your parents, with your child… this situation is not working out for you. I’m not saying leave your “husband” but… you need a change. Of course he doesn’t have time for a wife and a child, hes young and hes trying to make a living. You should have thought about that before getting “married” and having irresponsible sex.

Sounds like you guys have a nice life even though you are young, married, and have a baby. Good for you and I’m glad things are going so well. You definately need to tell him about how financially and emotionally happy you are in your current situation and that you don’t feel that he needs another job. I know a few guys my age who can take on that much of a work load, but they usually don’t spend any time with their families and they are always tired, so I know why it wouldn’t be a good idea for him to keep this second job. Good luck and I hope he listens to you!

That was my advice, mind your own business and move on.