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Me and my boyfriend for 9 month have been going through problems. Now he is being real close to me again and very affectionate. But the other night he didn’t come home till about midnight. I had called him between 10:30-11:00 PM and he wouldnt answer his phone till I called him about midnight and he said he was on his way home. Now we went to bed and he was rubbing up on me then I started to give him head and he said let me go pee and washup. When I went down on him it smelled like a condom. Then the next day on his white shirt I had noticed makeup all around his armpit and chest area I had confronted him about it and he was like what is that I said makeup. He said it was from me but I didnt have any makeup on that day. I want to leave him but it is hard I love him alot and he takes care of me and my kids. He gives me money when I need it and gives me alot of affection. I dont know what to do anymore I am lost because Im scared to leave him.

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Answer #1

Dealing with a cheating bastard is not worth any amount of money. It will never stop. Just from the things you have told me it’s obvious that he is unfaithful. If you have children it’s best to leave the situation before they are able to figure out what is going on and repeat the patterns in their own future relationships.

Answer #2

Think about it. Would you rather live a depressing life with your kids, getting money and “affection” you desire knowing your husband/boyfriend is cheating on you? or, Would you rather live a happy life single or in an amazing relationship full of trust, love, faith, and affection that you may find with someone else if you just give it a chance. This guy does not deserve you sweetie, you are a grown woman with children, you don’t need anymore stress put on you than you already have. Respect YOURSELF.

Answer #3

hhmm dont worry about the money and affection you can get that off someone else, when you smelt condom you should have confronted right there and then!!! how could you continue putting it in your mouth if you clearly know it was in someone else hours before!!! stop being scared and stand up for yourself! he is making a fool of you, get your crap and leave his cheating a$$!!!

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