Mad Depression

This is very difficult. Having an abortion was probably a good thing. You are only sixteen and having a baby would really screw up your life. Even if you did marry your boyfriend and got away from his mother, you probably would end up in divorce anyway. Try to understand were his mother is coming from. There is something I learned from my family that has helped me enormously. Wether or not something is true, to the person who believes it it is true. She believes that you wanted to marry her son for the money. That may not be true but it is a reality to her. You need to convince her otherwise. Do not come at this from a place of anger. Do this with love. She loves her son and is trying to protect him. DONT marry him yet. Stick with school and wait. If you are still in love in a few years than marry him. It was a good thing that you got an abortion. Having a baby makes life INCREDIBLY hard. Plus, by having the abortion you have probably saved the baby a lot of heartache as well as family that blames him for ruining everyones lives. You should live with the person who you think will be the most supportive and make you the happiest. Getting married will NOT fill the void in your life and the hole in your heart. Make amends with your family as well as your boyfriends family. Good luck. I will be praying.

you should try and talk to your boyfriends mother. tell her that you understand how hurt she must have felt knowing that because of your actions, all threee of your lives could have ended.(these are to get that wreched old bat off your back) just because you got pregnant once doesnt mean your going to let it happen again.

Well that is good. You managed to keep your life together even with something that has the potential to make it harder. But wouldnt you agree that given the chance to do it over again you wouldn’t get pregnant?