Lying for someone

My mother -in-law wants my husband and me to lie if other family members ask where my father-in-law is living (they’re divorced). Lying would make me feel uncomfortable, since we do know where he is living. Telling the truth would get me in trouble with my mother-in-law (yikes!). Saying something like “We’re not supposed to tell” would put her in a bad light. Please help!

Answer #1

its simple, if anyone asks you say “its not my place to say anything” or “its not my business” becos its between your mother-in-law and father-in-law. if anything they should be asking your husband not you. and if worse comes to worse just tell people you are not comfortable discussing their relationship. simple. you dont have to answer anyone, and you dont have to lie either.

Answer #2

Don’t let your mother-n-law or anyone else for that matter ask you to lie or go against what you believe is right. If she cared about you she wouldn’t ask you to do such a thing anyways. To keep our of trouble with her I’d probably just say ask her I’m pleading the 5th and joke it off and put the heat on her to answer or lie about whatever she wants to. You could always say you don’t feel it’s your place to give out that kind of information ask my mother-n-law maybe she can tell you. I wouldn’t go out of my way to make her mad but I wouldn’t lie for her. No one is worth that. I know what you’d really like to tell her is get a life and grow up but sometimes you just gotta smile and remain silent

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