Loving older men

I love a 28 year old I see very often. And I told him that. He’s been treating me nicer since there. Everyday I love him more. I’m 13. Is it normal to love somebody older than you?Is there a chance he loves me?

Answer #1

Yes it’s normal. And I do know a couple that has 15 years of an age difference. Of course, they met eachother when they both were adults, when it was okay. But in your case, it’s wrong. Very, very, very wrong. Your under 18, it’s illegal. And if he loves you back in a romantic way, yah, he’s a pedophile, and then you should stay away from him.

Answer #2

some people love older men..like I think my 29 year old step uncle is hot.. but I dont love him..that would just be weird..and im 15.

Answer #3

Yes it is normal to love someone older, but not by that many years. If he loves you back he’s got something wrong with him - seriously. And if your thinking of being in a relationship with him then I’m sorry but he’s a perv or something because it’s illegal and wrong.

Answer #4

seriously, I think that you CAN love people much older than u, but I think that in this case it’s a bit weird… considering your age its probably lust or something, and neway, 15 years is a BIG difference. Try to ignore him please…

Answer #5

for starters he’s not exactly a paedophille as he hasnt committed an illegal act, get it right. babe your only 13, your got your whole life ahead of you, yes you may love him because he is nice to you and as you said, he is NICER ever since you’ve been there. your far to young to get involved with an older man, and so what if he’s single you can;t be with him. you can love him all you want but you gotta face reality here darling, he wont be with you, in my personal opinion I dont think age shouldnt matter but in this case it does. your under age and you both cannot be more than student and teacher. try and get involved with people near enough your age group. hope this helps.

Answer #6

its normal to love someone older than you but in your case it does matter because your way too young for him and he should know better than to date a minor and in my opinion I think age doesn’t matter but in this case it does. I was in a relationship like this but he was 18 and I was only 12 and I broke up with him when I realized he was way too old for me and that he might be a pedophile and in your case age is very important because its a big age difference so please stop dating him immediately and just date guys your age. k take care I hope my advice helped you out.:)

Answer #7

Guys he not a pedophile, he actually teaches karate. And, I know he dosen’t love me back…=(

Answer #8

hes a pedeophile. probably grooming you.. call the police!

Answer #9

I would stay away from him just to stay safe.

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