love is pain

I really care about my boyfriend and I highly believe he cares as well. hes going through some trouble and I try to be there for him and help him in anyway I can. all I really want is to see him more often. I work overnight so thats an issue but I have 3 days off in a row. sometimes its to the point where hes so busy I rarely see him. but now its to the point I barely even talk to him. it boiled over recently when he basically stood me up and ddidnt even call. so I cursed him out which led to a little spat. but we cleared things up. that was over a week ago. I havent heard from him in a week now and his phone is turned off. I dont know if I should worry or be angry or what. im tired of worrying about him and the problems hes going through. I cant be more detailed here because well this is the freaking internet. I dont think hes cheating its not that he just makes stupid decisions and I wish I could just pull him away from all the drama. he says hes happy around me but he has “stuff to take care of” and he wants me to be patient while he gets his life together but this is crazy. im stressing myself out about it and I just want it to be better. I really care about him but I dont know how long I can be patient