How can I get more freedom to see my friends?

Well I’ve been with this guy for almost 2 years now and I’m happy with and love him to death. I’m 15 and he is 14 but the thing is I really love him but he doesn’t really like me hanging out with my friends cause their all potheads and he doesn’t want me doing something stupid with them….I understand that but I’m tired of being at my house and I don’t have a car yet to just hang out and drive around so I feel like he traps me in the house and like on Wednesdays he usually comes over cause he gets out early and shit but his friend Joe and Jordan hang out with him and by time he tries to come over he has to go home you know so I don’t get to see him it makes me feel like his friends get all my time and when I tell me that he get all mad at me I haven’t hung out with him for almost a month and a half the first time I hung out with him was a couple days ago but not for long, maybe like 3-4 hours, we used to hang out like all day almost what should I do? I love and I’m not going to leave him but should I talk to him about his friends and letting me got out with mine???

Answer #1

but the thing is that i told him that i would never do anything like that cuz thats just no me me is drinking and he knows that im an alcholic cuz ive been drinking since my sis left which was when i was 7 till now and i dont like drugs its stupid but ya and i told him how i feel but he doesnt get it

Answer #2

well he hangs around with his friends, so you have the right to hang around with yours, especially cos you’re at home bored.

he needs to make time for you… you said you didn’t see each other for a month 1/2???!!! you need to tell him how you feel, as he can’t expect to do what he wants and expects you to sit at home and do nothing… you can go out with your friends if you want, you just have to assure him that you wont take pot or any drugs.

Answer #3

I know it isn’t fair but being associated with both your B/F and your “pot-head” friends could be the reason that you are stuck at home. We are judged by the company we keep. He is controling and using you. You have a life to live and a youth to be enjoyed. Not some slave. Stand up for the right to your own life. Don’t be co dependant on either the friends or the B/F. They should not be the source of your hapiness. Enjoy being a girl at the age of 15. You have a life ahead of you to be committed to one man. When he is ready to be a man and take his responsible place as your protector and friend you will both know it. Don’t get stuck in a corner that you arn’t comfortable with.

Answer #4

i have friends who take ecstacy, who go clubbing and do loads of crazy things, but they’re still my friends and im not into drugs, but it’s up to them what they do in their spare time, i don’t judge them on that, and your boyfriend should nt judge your friends, it’s your life and up to you to decide who your friends are, you should try talking to him again, tell him you love him, but he is leaving you bored with nothing to do, what does he expect you to do, sit on your ass all day? you deserve time with ur friends. after all he gets time with his friends, why shouldnt you?

Answer #5

just tell him that yall need to spend more tiome together and that u want to hang out wit him

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