Love

I’m married and my wife had not connection and wanted to break things off several times. I never every put my hands on my wife and we since she felt she didn’t have a connection with me, and she said we were not compatible. She decided to leave several times after this. I took her back several times until I got tired and heart broken. She spoke to a minister and he told here it was her fault and after this last argument, she decided to work harder and not leave, but my heart is not their and I don’t love her even after we had talked about divorce over and over. My ex came back in my life after 11 years, she went through the same thing and she’s a good friend and I told her I will never cheat on my wife and she understands. Me and my Ex never had a closure and I know not to think of her and divorce my wife just because of her. What should I do.