Lost Childhood

If you miss your childhood, then there is most likely a reason for it. Perhaps you felt more secure back then. Perhaps it was the people who you were close to back then… or, of course, numerous other reasons. If you long for it, then it was perhaps a happier time in your life that you’d somehow like to hang on to.

Of course, you can’t regress physically and become that child again, but there “is” some logical and constructive things that you “can” do to perhaps recreate some of those better memories and constructively vent your feelings. Let’s face it, if all you do is just sit and think about it, then you really don’t accomplish much.

What I would suggest is to take some logical “action” of some sort, and when you do… see how you feel about the issue as you do. Perhaps you have some drive inside of you that you can really tap into to generate some great things out of your feelings.

What? Well, perhaps try your hand at writing children’s books and getting some of them published. If you are creative in a clothing area, try designing children’s clothing. In more of an “outreach” type of thing, you might be a great person for working with the youth in your area in some capacity. Maybe even help combat hunger for children in third world countries around the globe or at home.

It seems obvious that your mind is perhaps really still focused on your childhood days. Try using that energy and share your feelings to enable children now to know the happiness that you felt back then. Being that focused on that time period in your life may very well help you to relate to children much better than most adults in today’s world.

To deal with the issue constructively, you most likely have to take some sort of positive action in regards to it. If you are uncertain, start small and go from there. To just sit and dwell on it, of course, will only reinforce the feelings that you already have and make them stronger with no resolution.

I’m currently going on 60 years old and I still wonder what I will be when I grow up. Maintaining the same age you were as a child, is impossible, but holding onto a youthful attitude for life can be a blessing. What you have could even be a most prescious gift in disguise.

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TRUST ME THINGS WILL GET BETTER LIKE ME, I WAS RAPED MULTIBLE TIMES AND NOW IM WILLING TO GET OVER IT. EVERY THING GOT BETTER WHEN I STARTED GOING TO CHURCH AND READING THE BIBLE, MAYBE… I don’t know BUT IF YOU DO… TRY CHURCH OUT A LIL MORE,,, NOT ALL CHURCHES ARE BORING I GET TIRED AT CHURCH JUMPING AROUND AND SWEATING LIKE IM AT A CONCERT.

everyones child hood is screwy. and just try to move forward untill the day you die. and stop living in the past.

What happened to your childhood? Nobody has a perfect childhood, you know..