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how can i lose my jealousy..

ive been with my boyfriend for a year and two months, we have a very open, and loving relationship, but hes so social and it makes me uncomphortable how hes always talking to girls, always always.. some girls come up to me in the hall at school and say hi when im with him, or on the phone while hes there for the play after school, i dont even know these girls.. and he always tells me he dosnt like any of them, and i beleive him, this isnt about trust or anything, i know he loves me and i love him too, but it makes me so uncomphortable, cause.. i want him all to myself, which i know is terrible… i need some help, he is the only one i hang out with at school and after school, hes the only on i text except for my former best friend and family… please help me get over this, i dont want to loose him over all this foolishness…

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Answer #1

im the same ha i get jealous easy like if my bf talks to a girl at all lol but if i get bothered by it i tell him and he reassures me everythings alright and that there just his friends you know… but theres nothing wrong with being jealous cause it only shows you care but try to control it or maybe ask him if he can talk to less,…… like if your hanging out and hes like texting some girl then thats not cool… just try to talk about it n ask him if a much of guys were talking to you if hed care? you know..

Answer #2

Hi! Jealousy is perfectly normal in relationship just as long as it’s not taken to the extreme. My advice would be to not make him your world. You are your own person, maybe you have interest and things that have nothing to do with him. Be your own person and step back a little. Socialize with other people and text with new friends. If your sole visual is him and his actions everything he does will have an effect on you. Good Luck!

Answer #3

I think it just comes with maturity. Like when I had my first boyfriend I was about 14 or 15 or so and I would get jealous and let’s just say I wasn’t all that nice lol. Now that I’m 19 I have a boyfriend and I got over that insecurity. It was just about being insecure and growing up…

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