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Little Sisters
I have three little sisters, (And one little bro). I’m curious as to what advice to give my 12yr old sister about sex, she’s been asking me about this a lot lately and I don’t want to tell her something that will mess with her mind. I’m extremely non-judgmental and considered the mellow hippy, but I don’t want her to do something that will mess up her life. I lost my virginity at 14, and I’ve been messed up about it even when my adult life started. Any suggestions as to how I should go about this situation?
Now that I think about it, I’d also inform your parents. It’s fun being the “cool sister,” but if your little sister ends up pregnant, you’ll wish you were less cool and more responsible.
Don’t “hope she makes the best decision for her,” because she’s twelve. She literally CAN’T make the best decision.
I am blunt and honest about everything my younger sister asks me. If you try to parent her or lie, she will stop asking for advice. Maybe you could take her to a Planned Parenthood for some decent sex ed (that isn’t offered in school the way it should be).
If she’s even wondering about that, I suggest you to take her to the doctor and get the shot to prevent diseases because once she’s sexually active, that’s not an option anymore.
I think you should start by telling her all the risk of having sex.
And go on from there.
I would answer he questions honestly. Tell her what effect losing your virginity at 14 had on you, and inform her of all the risks. Then you could advise her on where to go for any other information she might have about it that you cant provide. Teens will be teens and one person telling them they shouldn’t have sex will change their mind if they are truly determined. The best thing you can do is give her the most accurate information you can, so that she is informed and hope that with that she makes the best decision for her.
whatever you do don’t use big words that she wont understand. lol But if she wants to know about sex then you should probably start with everything that it can lead to: hiv, aids, perg., stds… you know the facts. And you could tell her straight up because if she comes to you and not her mom then that must mean that she looks up to u–hope it helped
Tell her how losing your virginity early affected you.
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