leave him while you still can!

Ok i have read almost all your questions ever Kailey and i knew by the previous questions how happy you were with this guy.I know he hurt you but that is no reason to let him put you off guys forever.HE IS NOT WORTH IT.Do NOT let him ruin your life do NOT let him put you off men forever cos for every bad guy out there there is at least 10 good ones its just hard to find the right one for you but hes out there!He is not worth hurting yourself over i mean you know hes an asshole so why are you letting him bring you down ? you can obviously do alot better and now you have more expeirence and know what not to look for in guys.Do not let this one bad expierence ruin it all for you. You do not deserve to be treated like that and shouldn’t let it give you a bad opinion on all men and make you self harm.hes not worth it.

Im sorry about your situation>but you wanna know something? Most of us will go through the same thing as you at some point in their lives. Guys as well as girls! I DID!! You need to work through your hurt in a healthier way, than letting him get the best of you like he is! It took me a whole year to actually get over my ex. Theres alot of scum out there, and thats why i try to talk around sex whenever the girl says shes ready, because shes “in love”. Bfs come and go. It doesnt matter what they tell you. They think they know what love is, but they dont! They say everything we want to hear, and then break our hearts! You first have to learn not to open up your heart fully to a guy, if you can help it. Open it completely for your fiance/husband. Then you’ll at least know what he says to you is real!! Once a guy takes our virginity, we become VERY vunerable. Then when he gets bored, he moves on for the next kill. Im not saying that ALL guys fit into this, but a good number of them do! They want/love sex. They can have sex without any emtional attachments. My ex would tell me time and time again that he wasnt like other guys. He told me he didnt care if he ever got any. Ya, right, and i really believed that. Up until he stabbed me in the heart when he literally chased this girl(14 at the time, with a bf)(he was 17) Im sure he knew her reputation,(everyone did) and pursued her to get me back(long story)They screwed the 2nd night. He then lied to me for 2 months until the truth finally came out! I wanted to die right then and there! Well he got what he wanted. I would NEVER take him back after all the stuff he has done to me. Hes a jerk like no other!

1 year later im finally in a real relationship with a wonderful guy. He treats/respects my feelings. Hes truly a nice guy!

If you want to talk on aim, i would be more than happy to do that. We can compare stories! (bet i have you beat) Good Luck hun!!

EDIT 2 years later!!

Im trying to give advice to girls who are questioning their relationships. Obviously, since 1. you are a guy …and 2. you have no intentions of leaving ur girlfriend, this post i lef wasnt for you.

umm;To all you girls out there with boyfriends, leave them while you still can!

just because you have relationship issues doesnt mean u can go around tell people to break up.

[this friendly advice brought to you by your neighborhood friendly milkman]

This coming from the girl that likes to cut herself?