Do you think this is kind of rude?

Okay so like Colleen said, your friend HAD to go. But I know if we had plans and my best friend had to skip over the plans she would start sobbing like crazy, definitely NOT poking fun at me. Tell her how you feel. I think it was very rude.

I agree with Colleen as well. Even though she didn’t have any control over mother nature. If she was a good friend she’d show more consideration of your feelings. Maybe you should find another friend to invite to NY and get to know better…..put your friendship with this one on pause till you see more of what develops with her and her behaviors. You may decide she’s not the type of best friend you thought she was. I would let her know how you feel about her lack of consideration and your inviting someone else because you don’t want your BD plans messed up.

Take someone else to new york and laugh at her through text.

As soon as you got that txt with the Hahaha …. you should have replied your true thoughts….instead you obviously didn’t and now you have a problem that only you know about and only you feel ,and your mind will play on until you voice your concerns to the person your post is about.Stand up for yourself and say what you feel,is my advise.

You have the right to be annoyed. But It wasn’t your friends fault that her family decided to stay the week and miss your plans. But her reaction could be taken as being rude. Unless she is just the kind of person who jokes around like that. Maybe she was trying ti make light of the situation and have a laugh about it. If you are seriously worried about her bailing on you for your NY trip, you could mention it to her in a jokey way, send her a text saying. Something like “i hope your not gonna bail on me fir NewYork like you did with Halloween haha” Just be careful not to get into a fight with your friend over this.

Thankss (: