Why do kids have to judge each other on every single little thing?

because its a very judgemental world out there

My guess: Because they are so used to being judged harshly themselves. If you don’t want them (or you) to be so judgmental, Rai, you can begin by not judging them yourself - not even for being too judgmental!

I never judge people verbally, I always give a thought of how I think they are, then must up the courage to actually try an get to know them. I don’t like judging people or people judging me. So it’s kind of a rare thing for me. Usually I put give them lots of comments and under…whatever myself

I didn’t mean to “accuse” you of being too judgmental by asking your perfectly valid question. Sorry, Rai, if that’s how it came across. What I meant is that each of us has to (and can) take responsibility for interrupting the vicious cycle of judgment.and mutual recriminations. That means our self-judgments, too, should be made honestly but with compassion, not harshly.

cuz its a f*cked up world

Not all judging is negative. I guess it’s just the way people are, they want to seem dominant to everyone else to impress, and to feel strong. Karma’s a bitch if you are.

it’s human nature, everybody judges everything deep, down inside.

they do, but nobody should judge a book by its cover.

because thats human nature, im sure youve judged someone without knowing it, we all do it at some point in our lives, but dnt let a judgment turn into how u really think of them, get to know them

because most people think that if they point out everybody else’s flaws it will hide all of theirs.