why is this kid making his issues public?

okay, so i got into a fight with this guy on facebook from my school, hes not the most popluar kid and gets bagged because he makes stupid remarks. when we were arguing, he said this “Cause i know why people do it lol, im n ugly unsuccesful piece of shit n i have nothing else to do but get hit by my dad”. he has told many people from my school the same thing. he even sent pictures to one of my friends of him cutting himself! everyone tells him that he should just call kids helpline or even just call the cops. he says that hes good and will pass. do you think that he is making this all up so people can feel some sympathy for him and stop bagging him?

Answer #1

Yes but it is serious and should not be tolerated. He may be looking for sympathy and that is the wrong way. What he needs is medical help and if he come to you with remarks like before always suggest medical help in a nice way and never reward him with sympathy. He may get used to the sympathy and accelerate his stories into reality and do something desperate for attention. Also try and find something you like about him and let him know. This should be done by everyone associated with him so that he knows that there are other reasons why people like him other than they feel sorry for him. Had a friend who committed suicide when i was in school and she died because she wanted attention and told her dad to wake her up after she swallowed sleeping pills. She would have scared everyone when he woke her up and she would have been rushed to the hospital and had he stomach pumped but her dad found that she looked so peaceful sleeping that he let her sleep. There was nothing anyone could have done after that. She was in a choma for about 1 week and then she passed away. People dont really want to kill themselves if they tell you or leave an opening for you to see that they tried. What they want is to be saved. All you can do is be a friend and get the help for him from professionals if it is too much for you to handle. Remember…all you can do is be there for him as a friend. maybe that’s just what he needs. Friends.

Answer #2

You never know, all of this might be true, and this might be his way of asking for help or something, but it could be a way so he just grabs attencion and so people feel sorry for him. It could be one or the other, if he sais that just tell a teacher, the teacher or councelor might call someone to make a report and meaby actions will be taken from there. Also he needs help, if he is looking for attencion that way, he needs help, because making up stuff like that is just wrong…

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