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Keep him or Leave him in the past?

Ok. So… My boyfriend is awsome. We have been going out for 5 weeks and one day! And I love him to death… But he is a little to friendly with the other girls… I mean he gives them hugs constantly and tells them he loves them. He gives me a hug when I see him but he never clings to me like I want he to. And it hurts me when he hangs out with the other girls and leaves me.

And the other thing is he knows I lost my brother because of weed and we were hanging out yesterday and he walked off and bought weed. It hurt me so bad. He knows it pissed me off because I wouldnt talk to him for the rest of the night. Then we he went home, he didnt text me like he does.

I talked to my brother and he told me to leave him. But I really dont want to. I just want him to change. A little bit. I dont care if he smokes or drinks I just dont want to do drugs. and I want him to leave the other girl alone…

Any Advice???

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Answer #1

you may think he knows how you feel but he can’t read your mind so you are going to have to tell him whats on it

if he doesn’t like what you have to say then he doesn’t deserve to be with you

Answer #2

from reading that, it doesn’t sound like you’re happy with him. girl, there are other good guys out there; he doesn’t sound like one of them, especially after reading what he did about the sitaution with the weed (I feel your pain about the loss btw). this is the way I’m viewing it: you’re not happy=bad relationship. you’re jealous=bad relationship. see where I’m going with this? you definitely need to move on and find someone that will treat you right, because he sounds like he is just TRYING to hurt you. do you want to be with him and continue being unhappy, or do you want to give someone else a shot that knows how to treat a priceless treasure because that’s what every girl is.

Answer #3

you could start hanging around with some boys to make him jealous, then he will realise what its like ? or you could finish it between you both (I know it will hurt so much) and try to find another lad.

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