Just barely 15 and pregnant.

Ouch. That does suck. Just take a few deep breaths. Or a billion. Take as many as you need until you can relax. If you freak out about it it’s just going to make everything more difficult and crazy. You need to relax because if you’re not calm about this no one will be. Because you’re the one carrying the baby, you’re the one that has to make the biggest decisions and deal with the most crap.

I understand you are scared to tell your parents but they are going to find out eventually whether it be from your doctor or when your belly starts to grow or 6 months from now. You’ve just turned 15, you can’t do this on your own. It’s best to just tell them now. They’ll be mad at first but they’re going to have to deal. Like I said, they aren’t the ones carrying the baby. There’s always putting it up for adoption and all. Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you’ve ruined your life. Don’t let them get you thinking that. Eventually, they are going to have to come to an understanding whether they want you or not. And you are their child, they will be mad but soon enough they will want to help you and take care of you. Don’t worry.

As for your boyfriend, he has to understand that this is his baby too. And even though this is both your faults, it’s mainly his. He didn’t pull out in time and he didn’t care that there was no protection involved because HE didn’t have getting pregnant to worry about. So if he gets mad at you and leaves, he was never worth it. Having sex so soon in a relationship also gives me the idea that the sex had nothing to do with love. I’d be surprised if he stays with you… the truth sucks.

Best of luck.