Jailbird Boyfriend

Okay here’s my problem.I have this boyfriend who I’ve been going out with almost 4 months.But for the last 2 he’s been locked up and I LOVE HIM So I stayed with him. But the other day he wrote and was like why don’t you want to send me a picture of you?What your new man told you not to thats really messed up.I Wrote back and was like so now don’t trust me,or whatever.And he wrote back talking about baby I love you and need you .And I pray that we didn’t break up .I soo confused I just don’t know what to do. I love him and would never cheat on him ,but he’s so insecure.I really would like to know what you guys think. Thanks in advance.

Answer #1

Hey, My boyfriend is also in jail. He’s been in for a month. but has 22 months left. To me it sounds as if he’s jumping to conclutions. It hurts but send him letters and pictures. Thats the best you can do. If he hasn’t called yet, suggest a phone call maybe? Let him know what you’re up to, it will make him feel better while he’s in there and you’re out. Also… maybe send him the perfect lyrics to a song “Here by me” by 3 Doors Down. Let him know why you’re with him. He’s going through a hard time and so aren’t you, just let him relize how much you’re commited to him. Hope I helped.

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