its happening again & I hate it

OH my gosh you hit the nail on the head with me. I have always been hot and slim, I am now 33 and my body is changing. It is hard to adjust to. I am married, only about 2 years. I use to be the center of attention, I was just out tonight and watched all the young girls roll in, in there little outfits and hot shoes and looking all sexy. It is hard to look in the mirror and face the changes. I am not talking about weight, thought I have gained about 30 pounds since I was about 29. But it is about you and us embrassing our bodies and loving what we are changing into. I find it so hard. I know I am beautiful, but I do not look like I once did. and yes it does effect you more then just in the bedroom, the only thing I can tell u, is don’t let it bother u ( I know that is hard) but my husband is with me because he loves me, finds me sexy and I am fun person to be around. Honey I can’t really tell you it is easy because I don’t think it is. I watch people on tv saying they really became a women and loved who they were at age 50. I can’t imagine. My body has changed so much it scares me, and I feel like it happend over night. I am still working on loving my body , I love who I am and my personaltiy but my body is a different story. I wish someone would have warned me about all these changes. GRRR