Why does it always have to go his way?

What you have described is controlling behavior. He can look through your phone, but you cant look through his? It should go both ways.

He made that comment, because if you looked through his phone, you would probably find something that shouldnt be there. It takes two people to make a relationship work, and it sounds like only one is participating. If he only hangs out with you when HE wants to, you should tell him you have other plans the first couple of times he calls. See how bad he wants to see you, and be with you. To me he doesnt seem all too interested in the relationship! A guy that really cared about you, would want to spend most of his time with you.

things going your way = controlling.

why do you have to be the only one to drop everything you are doing to make him happy? He should be willing to drop everything and do things for you. each person should give 100% and it looks like only you are.

I would talk to him about it and tell him that you think you should be treated differently, if it doesn’t change then maybe he isn’t worth it. Girls deserve a guy who treats them like a princess and with respect, respect for their time and efforts in a relationship.

Tell him. He should treat you like a princess. My Best friends boyfriend does the exact same thing and he is always getting mad when she does something, buyt then he goes and does the exact same thing. Tell him that its not fair to you, and that if he doesnt change your going to have to rethink the relationship, if he really loves you and he is there for you then he will change. It will be like something hit him and he will get it. If not, then you can find someone better.

hope I helped, xoxo :)