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Issue with my boyfriend stealing

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I been with my boyfriend a little over 4 years. He hasnt kept a job more then 3 months and is a thief and constant liar. I know im stupid to stay with him but I broke it off like 5 imes on and off but he knows how to have me right back in his arms. I lost my job and found a small job enough to pay bills and now look to find a 2nd job. Half of my bills is because of him and he thinks since its on my card its my responsibility which yes it is but he is the one who took me to the hospital for an anxiety attack that he caused knowing I had no insurance. 2 months later I had 3,600.00 bill that I am still paying on. He has stolen from my family money from my house and my cousins xbox 360 games which were like 70 dollars a piece for 2 and one was 30. He has stolen my crediecard in the past and I thought we had solved the issue but apparently not since he just done this. I dont know why I am staying with him. I dont know if its because im a thick girl and think no one will like me since im not skinnny or if its because I think I can change him which I now know it wont happen. I can not have children and he wants them and I figured that keep him away and he said as long as he has me he is fine. My grandmother says its because I pay for everything which I dont cause I dont have any money to pay and he does which I dont understand since he doesnt work? Is he stealing money probally yes. Anywho I dont know what to do please help and be as blunt as possible thats cool with me I need it