Is this rape

they’re right, anytime you tell a guy “NO” and he doesnt stop, it’s rape. I’m sorry this happened to you.

p.s. birockstarchick , you are my hero! I loved your response. deborah sounds like a wonderful person/

this is definately rape. What you have to do is report it, get tested for EVERYTHING, and get counsoling. Its a hard thing to have to go through but you will get through it. I was raped when I was younger and didn’t tell anybody. Years later I was still suffering with the depression I felt afterwards that I had to be hospitalized because I tried to kill myself. While I was in the hospital me and a group of other kids had therapy ALL DAY. At first it was annoying but it actually helped. My favorite therapist was named Deborah and for a self esteem group therapy session she took a $20 bill out of her pocket and said ‘who wants it?’ naturally everyone raised their hand and she asked ‘why?’ after we all said ‘because its 20 bucks!! Duhh.’ she crumpled it up and asked us again ‘who wants it?’ again we all raised out hands. Her response to this was to throw it on the floor and ask us again ‘who wants it?’ everytime she continued at abuse that $20 she would ask ‘why? Why do you all want a twenty dollar bill that has been crumpled up, thrown on the ground, stepped on, kicked and everyhing else?’ after we said ‘because its money!! No matter what you do to it, its still $20!!’ and all she said was ‘exactly, now apply that to yourselves. You have all gone through Hell and back and you are still you. No matter how many times people abused you, no matter what they did, they still can never change who you are. Nobody can make you less valuable.’ then she picked up the money and dusted it off. I know this story sounds really cheesy but when I was going to kill myself because of what some guy did to me that made me feel worthless, Deborah was one of the only people who let me know that even though some really bad things may have happened, I was still the same person that I’ve always been and nothing can change that.

anytime you say NO…then its rape. call the police in the area and let your parents know. you also need to go to the docter and make sure no damage was done.

Yes it’s rape. ANYTIME YOU SAY NO IT’S RAPE. Go to the police, it will really help you to move past it. And try to remember that this is NOT YOUR FAULT.

Good luck and best wishes

firstly can I start off by saying, I’m sorry. you have nothing to feel guilty about and no one can make any excuses for this mans behaviour…

it doesn’t matter if you’re half way through, if you call time and say NO, then it’s ‘stop the train, I’m getting off’.

if at ANY stage a women says ‘NO’ and the other person carries on, it’s rape…

it’s not nice, it’s not pretty, but NO ONE has the right to violate you, or disregard the decisions you make regarding your own body.

the police are far more supportive of people who come forward now, speak to the police, they have a FANTASTIC support system, and will walk you through the whole process…it’s not easy, but then finding out that he has done it again would be awful…

go to the police, and get support…good luck x x :)

yes this is rape contact the police the point is you sed no and he didnt back off!!!

YES

Yes - you need to report it to the police.

Yes that is rape you should call the polie!!!

yep. it sure is.

RAPE !!!