Is this guy a compulsive liar, or am I paranoid?

I’ve been seeing this guy for like over a month, we’re 23/24 and met over the net. Lately I’ve noticed little things like, inconsistency in the things he says. Like, I’ll ask which days he has off work, he’ll say Tues and Weds. Then later I asked, and he said ‘Oh no, I’ve got next Weds off and this Friday my day off’. Then on Fri, I msgd asking how his day was, and he said he was on his break, but I said, aren’t you at home? He said, no my day off is next Friday, but at least I had Weds off. (what?!) and then he msgd again saying, sorry I mean I had that day off with you, I’m getting my days mixed up. And then I think he felt worried, cause I brought this up with him, and he called me, ofcourse I felt weird and he could sense it. Other little things like, he said he got me a present, it’s been like 2 weeks, haven’t seen it! hah! Am I being paranoid, or is this compulsive lying? How do you approach this, I mean I really wanted to trust him and like him… but… hmmm!!!

Answer #1

Its a little of both Like you can get different days off Like my dad has sundays and mondays off but this week he had a random thursday off…?

Answer #2

I think hes a compulsive liar, and using this “present” to make up for the awkwardness going on. I’ve never been in this situation, so I don’t really know what to tell you. I would probably get sneeky and dig in a little more. But hey, what would I know? … I’m 15. Hahah. It’s hard to trust someone when their giving you different answers! It’s not your fault, it’s his.

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