Is thinking about starting a family weird ?

it not that weird. but yea, just a tad. but its not weird. guys think about all that stuff al the time. maybe not the marriage part. but they think about sex a lot. from what I’ve heard, anyway.

It’s not weird at all - your completely normal. Although you need to be mature enough to realize that now is not the time for either of those things, you are still young, not even in a relationship, etc.

I agree with mandyloo entirely. There is nothing wrong with it, but you need time and experience to justify it in a way. I look at thoughts like those at your age as being quite mature. A lot of people at your age are running around wanting casual sex and other such things. Think of your thoughts as things that will build you into a good and caring character in the future. Just give yourself time and get to know even yourself a bit better. I’m only 19, but love my girlfriend to death and so ideas like those have crossed my mind and I don’t feel weird about them, so why should you? I think aspirations like those are positive, so good on you :)!

you probably just like the thought of being able to impregnate girl it’s a pretty nice experience when you’re able and actually ready to be a father. But like me at my current age and place in my life I know for a fact a baby wouldn’t be good for me. So I guess I’m one of those guys that just has sex to make love to my girl and for the pleasure of course. Marriage is an awesome thing too and it’s good you want to get married when you find that special someone it seems like maybe you’re just at a point in your life where you’re ready for the next big steps and those are pretty big steps.