Is there a way to get him to like me?

So, Ive liked this guy for a while. i liked him a year ago. for a little while, then i gave it up. Then, i liked him again a month ago. and he didnt really do anything when he found out. so I gave up, again.

and after a month, ive realized I really like him. again. and hes tall, cute, funny, nice. everything i want in a guy. but he also hasnt really had a girl friend for like 2 years.

mabey hes just not ready for girls yet? because im not ugly. and im not stupid.

but every guy im 100% happy with [him.] doesnt like me back. i always settle for less. and im reallyyy sick of it. i want the best.

any advice?

Answer #1

First of all, I think it’s a lost cause with that particular guy. If you have TOLD him how you feel and he still isn’t interested, he’s not going to become interested.

If you feel you just have to try, ask him out. I wouldn’t try a movie or something that’s usually for couples, I’d try for a burger at McDonald’s or something. I’d just say, “Hey, you wanna grab a burger with me sometime?” If he says yes, you’re in (well, you’ve got your foot in the door.) If he says no, MOVE ON.

Has he had a lot of girlfriends? If so, it’s not because he’s not ready. If he hasn’t had a lot of girlfriends, then he might not be ready to take on a relationship (they are very hard work). The grab a burger technique should work if he’s not ready…

It’s natural to want the very best, but you might consider lowering your standards just a bit. What I mean by that is: If you only want cute tall guys, you may consider choosing someone who isn’t so tall. Their physical appearance isn’t as important as how they will treat you. I’ve known (and dated) a lot of hot guys who raped me when I said I wasn’t ready and they didn’t want to hear it, beat me when they were angry or just because they were bored, etc. Physical appearance isn’t everything…

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