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How to convince my Dad to cut down on his drinking?

is there a way 2 get my dad 2 cut down on his drinking?

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Answer #1

First off, there’s no harm in trying to bring the subject up with your dad. In doing so though be prepared for him to shut you down because he is a grown man and could be set in his ways and not open to any advice/lecturing. If/when you bring it up and he does lend his ear your way, mention that you’re really uncomfortable with his drinking habits and that you’re concerned. If anything bad has been happening from his drinking (I.e. abuse (physical/verbally), health issues, etc) it might be a good to bring those topics up to him, letting him know you care and that he’s worrying you. Your dad is the only one who can help himself, so though it is a good thing to bring the topic up and give advice, know that it isn’t your fault and that at least you tried. I come from a family of alcoholics, so I’ve been there done that with a couple of my relatives. Hope I’ve helped a lil if any. Good luck!

Answer #2

Talking to him might help or your Mother and what not. try writting him a letter if you are not compfortable talking

Answer #3

They usally dont change… my mom is a drug addict and I cant do anything to change her… Maybe tell him it really hurts you.. and you want him to live to see your kids.. and so on.. maybe try taking him to counsling with you.

Answer #4

try talking to him and teeling him how you feel about it ,and how it affect you,be honest and try not to say it hardly,wish you luck.

Answer #5

Try to talk to him. If he doesn’t let you, tell a teacher or another guardian or an adult figure you trust about your problem.

Answer #6

Dear xxaloneinlifexx, I’m sorry but there isn’t much you can do…he is addicted and only he can go to rehab and dry out. But you can get the information for him. Go to AA and ask for some information for your father. They will also let you know if there is a teen program that you can join. If they have the teen program join it…you will have support and help you need. Sue…good luck

Answer #7

Ganjamasta42, I would..but he doesnt give a shet about us lol

Answer #8

I’ve tried..he says “shut your mouth it aint your bussiness, go 2 bed”

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