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Is my partner cheating?
It all started when we found out I was pregnant. He went to his guy mates house and then I received a phone message on my cell with girls laughing in the backround… Apparently they were his friends mums… Then he got a new job and did not come home so I rang him 6x as I was cooking dinner for him. Then his boss rang me and told me to pick him up so I did, he then walked down the drive way with a girl in a mini… The next time he was at his sisters hubbys stag do, Lied again by telling me they were all staying the night there and not going clubbing as our baby celebration was the next day. On that day I found out he was in town and 2months later his brother blurted out do you remember that “bar”… Found out he was getting drunk with singles… And now he is wanting to marry me but I dont know if he is a cheat or what to think. I know this is not good for trust but I need advise before I make a wrong desertion.
follow your heart.think about your kid.
Why don’t you ask him about it honey…Don’t worry just be strong for you and your baby…you deserve a good man and if he ain’t then do your thing…okay…I personally think your extremely strong woman I dont think any guy would last with me if I were in your position…
There are two sides to every story, and while his behaviour seems shady, I can’t help but wonder if there’s another reason for it.
You called him 6 times while making dinner? That seems a little obsessive to me…is it at all possible that you’re making him feel as though he has to lie? Do you grate him and question him about every move he makes? Do you allow him a little freedom?
If you’re the type of person who refuses to let him out without your permission, or tries to control him, then I can see why he’s not being honest with you.
I’m not saying that’s what you’re doing - I don’t know you or how your relationship works, but it is something to consider. If that’s not the case at all, then I would definitely be wary of his dishonesty.
Follow your instincts. It seems to me that he is cheating, especially because he is lying to you all the time.
My advice would be not to get married to him. At least not anytime soon, there is nothing that says that you have to be married when your having a baby. Wait it out and see what happens.
Oh and confront him about it and tell him why you aren’t going to get married to him.
I asked him last night and it turns out that he never cheated. But he was only 22years old when we found out I was pregnant and he just wanted some time away to think about everything. And as for the stag do I was only due in 3weeks and he did not want me to know he was in town as he knew what I would think and did not want me to be in labour early… Thanks for all you inquires and most of them helped me to ask straight up for the truth.
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