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Is this age difference too great for us to be together?

I am 15 year old and i have fallen in love with a 23 year old. He is really sweet and kind to me but everyone is telling me to finish it with him because he is older then me. My mum and dad both have 10 years between them but I really really like him and we are due to get married when I’m 18. I really love him and i just want some advice because i don’t know what to do because if i had to choose between my family and him i would choose him cause he means the world to me.

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Answer #1

It’s not wrong for a 15 year old to be in love with a 23 year old, that’s normal crush stuff.

But it IS absolutely, without a doubt INCREDIBLY wrong for the 23 year old to be with YOU!

Don’t use that “but my parents’ age difference is 10 years” crap. Age differnences is a big deal, even if your parents were able to make it work. The older you get, 5-10 years is more common to find. But you are a CHILD!! He is a grown 23 year old. I know you can’t see how sick it is because you feel you’re mature and older and don’t look 15. But the truth is still there, your boyfriend is a sick guy. Get away from him.

One day, when you are 23 and you or your friends are all a year out of college, you will easily realize how sick it would be if one of your guy friends came around with a 15 year old. Stay with your parents, they love you and want the best for you. And I can’t freakin’ believe you’d choose him over your family just because they don’t approve. Hello?! It’s their job not to approve. If your mom was helping you design your wedding dress, I’d appeal to have her locked up in a looney bin.

Wow.

Answer #2

no my mum doesnt now about the wedding but im not finishing with him cause he means the world to me

Answer #3

ok it al depends ii mean im wit a guy that 29 i just turned 20 but if i was 15 an he was 24 id still be wit him and no buddy can stop that if u love thjat person age is nothin but a number

Answer #4

girl lemme be honest wit u.. 15 is really young.. i no u feel so inlove but do u see yourself wit him 5 or 6 years from now.. if the answers yes than go ahead. i was in the same postion wen i was 16 i lost my virginity 2 a dude 25yrs old i thought i loved him n we would b 2gether 4 eva but after a while he started getting bored of the fact i couldnt go 2 clubs or bars wit him and do fun couple stuff cuz i wasnt of age.. hell yeah i still drank and party but old guys can be a baaad influence. and any “grown” man who’s girl just got outta middle school may have sum issues of his own and he should be getting sum advice on this website instead…

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