Is it stupid to get mad over this situation?

I’m having a lot of family problems today and its really huge issues. The only thing going right about my day is my boyfriend.

OR SO I THOUGHT.

We were chatting on yahoo messenger. And I was spacing out so I wasn’t replying for a while. And he got mad. When I finally replied which is like 10 minutes later, he started going bad on me and flashin on me about not answering.

And I got angry because I got a lot of problems, he does not need to be one of them. You can’t pick your family, therefore, I have to deal with it. BUT I CAN PICK EVERYONE ELSE and I told him that so I’d get rid of him in .1 seconds if he’s going to be an asss and not understanding of my problems.

I know that I personally would just be HAPPY that my friend is talking even if he/she ignored me for a while I’d understand they’re not in the best mood.

ISN’T IT STUPID HOW MY EX-boyfriend GOT MAD AT ME FOR THAT?? I mean c’mon now. Yelling at a person who’s already messed up??

Oh and now he wants to commit suicide. Great.

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Answer #1

you’re BOTH overreacting… he was hurt because you were ignoring him so he gave you a hard time about it (which was really stupid but people lash out sometimes), and then you implying he was expendible just hurt him more… and the cycle starts over again…

you need some space away from each other when you’re both so much on edge…

Answer #2

ya that was dumb of him. that is a really stuoid thing to get mad overi mean 4 heavens sake. ya I totally agree with you and if he knew you were having problems anyway then he should have been being extra sweet and understanding. you were right. dont worry.

Answer #3

well just tell him you were having a bad day and ddint really feel like talking. so just explain to him you were having a bad day and tell him you have a few problems and some things on your mind. which you obviously do. maybe go talk to someone who you can trust about your problems and that should make you feel better. =] it uually worked with me. like a close friend or family member. it doesnt really have to be a counsilar just go talk to someone you can trust about these things and just tell that guy your sorry and all that stuff ok? ok good. =]

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