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my family went in Palawan for a vacation this summer. then i met a french guy but wasn’t able to talk to him though i found myself liking him the next day. we both stayed in the same resort but when my parents decided to move in another much ‘worth it’ resort, i was devastated because i thought that i’ll never see french guy again. but that same day, french guy and his family also moved to the same resort we were checked in the second time..i kinda was hoping that it will happen and it really did happen as what i expected. then i was able to know his name unexpectedly when i was staring at a black board placed on the counter of the resort. his entire family’s name were written there.. i was confused i didn’t know what the whole thing means.. is it something ‘a sign perhaps’, or just plain coincidence??

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Answer #1

It may be a good idea for you to stop and more about what you say to yourself. You said you were “devastated” that you had to move to a new resort while on vacation and couldn’t see a dude you just met for one day. That you don’t speak to and didn’t know his name.

Honey- do you have any idea what true devastation is? I would bet that you don’t. Because if you have ever truly felt devastation in your life, you would know how silly what you said sounds.

No, I don’t think it’s a sign. You were in a crappy resort with others who felt the same way. You all moved to a nicer resort nearby and you were in a hotel lobby where a bunch of names are listed on a blackboard for employee purposes. It is neither coincidence or a “sign”. It is what it is. It is one crappy resort losing customers to a better one.

Sorry to break it to you in my traditional boring way.

Answer #2

Hi, This is the fifth (yes FIFTH) time you’ve asked this same question over a period of days, and I’ve deleted most of them. Since this has a good answer, it’s staying, but please either ask something new or add some new information to this instead of repeating yourself.

Thanks! Dara (aka editor)

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