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Is it OK to like someone who is taken and pregnant?

is it ok to have strong feelings for someone who is already taken and pregnant? I really love this girl but it hurts so bad that I can’t be with her. I feel uncomfortable when she talks about her boyfriend around me, is this strange? should I just forget about it or just do nothing. Most of the time it hurts so bad I feel like totalt erasing her from my memory or moving because I can not deal with not being around her.

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Answer #1

Well, theres no rule saying you cant like someone who is pregnant. So, I cant really say that its wrong. Its not like you can choose who you like, but you need to think about what you are doing. They are obviously happy together if they are dating, and have a child on the way… leave them be. Its okay to have feelings for someone, I know you cant change that, but don’t show your feelings. You need to move on, its going to take time, you cant just expect to wake up and not have feelings for her anymore. You need to still be her friend, just try and look at her from a different perspective. She has a child on the way, don’t put her through stress, it can very well harm the baby. So, just be yourself around her, be friendly. And at the same time, try and move on the best you can. Don’t just completely walk out of her life, thats not fair to her, and thats not fair to yourself. I hope you find it in you to make the right choice.

Answer #2

Dear kcaz67,

It is never wrong to love some one not ever.

If she is happy with this guy though and they are going to have a child the chances are you are not going to get her and that is something that you need to understand that and morn it. Morning as messed up as that sounds is healthy and important step to healing. Morn the lost.

Alright that is all I can say to do.

Good luck and God Bless

Dark wolf

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