is it cheating???

Yes that is cheating.

Honey - why are you even putting yourself through all of this. He obviously still cares about her if he came back with a hickey on her neck. You do not need to be involved in all of his baggage. He has a child - a baby mamma, and you are being put in the middle. You are too young to have to worry about that.

Your man coming home with a hickey that isn’t from you is a pretty clear sign he’s cheating no matter where he went.

yeah unless she raped him I think its cheating

This is why people your age are screaming “WE ARE JUST AS MATURE AS ADULTS!!!” and the adults just don’t listen to you at all.

You’re 13, and you’re dating someone with a kid? …Why? That doesn’t seem even remotely stupid to you? Because it is.

If he has a kid his decision making skills aren’t that great. That much is obvious. And if he has a hickey…that ISN’T FROM YOU…yes, that would mean he got it from SOMEWHERE ELSE.

YES!!!he didnt get in a fight with the vaccum im sure. it looks like he still has feelings for his baby mamma. you dont need to go throough this or let him put you through this. you need to tell him whats on your mind and that your not happy he got a hicky dont let him walk all over you. stand up to him.