is he the one?

I don’t feel bad for him actually like him a lot. and I do feel comfortable. I just don’t know if he’s using me or not. that is the problem.

wait, time is all that you need to see if this guy is really properly interested in you or is going to do a “hump and dump” dont rush anything 14 is really young to lose your virginity and only go all the way if you want to but he might only be using you if he is 17 then he might see you as an easy excuse for sex

helpful? xx

As soon as I saw this, I knew exactly what he’s doing. DUH, he’s using you. You get them comfortable, start slow, then get them hooked on you. That’s how a lot of teenage guys think. As soon as there are any sort of complications, whether they be physical, emotional, or intellectual, he’ll dump you and move on to his next victim.

Anyway, it’s illegal for minors to have sex.

So, you’re gonna lose your virginity with him because you feel bad for him or something? My advice to people is to stay abstinent and besides, you can get HIV/AIDS and guys can use girls for sex a lot nowadays. Are you sure you love him? You CAN use a condom but It’s up to you. I can’t tell you to stop but I can ask you, do you feel comftorable doing so? Sex was made to enjoy, yes, but to enjoy at the right time the right way. Sex was made to make a family, but now people are starting not to care, oh sh*t and twisting them up. I don’t think you should lose your virginity.

very helpul. thanks.

Most likely, the abstinence comment was “abstinence till marriage/permanent committed relationship.” When one uses the term “abstinence”, this is generally the context in which it is used.

Personally, I don’t mind contributing to the species, so long as I’m not accelerating the degradation of society, which is ultimately leading to our species demise.