Is he just waiting for me to sleep with him?

There are all these red flags with this guy, but yet you are saying, “He has a reputation of sleeping with alot of girls, and im afraid that i wont be as good as some of the girls hes been with, and im afraid of him not wanting to be with me”. Hun, sx is NOT a game, that has to involve competiveness, and if it does, whats that telling you? It should be telling you that hes a PLAYER, and uses girls!! Right in the beginning he was showing you his true colors, but yet you are still thinking of sleeping with this clod? You are going to end up being a notch on his belt, just like all the rest! Guys respect girls who dont give it up so soon. Make him prove to you, its YOU he wants, not sx! (actually hes been telling you what he wants)! Stick to your guns, and dont give into him. You barely even know one another. Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into sx. Guys see sx as totally physical and don’t get their emotions involved. You should save an intimate physical connection for a guy who proves by his actions over a LONG time - not just a couple of months - that he truly loves you and respects your feelings and wants to be together with you for the long-term.

The only way you are going to know if hes looking for a long term commitment or just another sx toy is, he will be patient with you setting a slow pace for sxual involvement. A guy who will care for you after sx is also a guy who will wait a long time for sx without pressuring you. A guy who cares about you will treat you with respect, listen to your feelings, put you first in his life, be proud of including you in activities with his friends and family, and cheer you up when you are down. This guy only seems to care about his labido being fulfilled!