Is he just being friendly?

Ok…I will try to make this short…bear with me. This guy has been a regular customer at my work and I do like the attention I am receiving so I mgiht be reading more than I should into this. The first time he actually talked with me he asked me what time I was leaving work…we made conversation and I was interested in going to this event he was going to…so I was planning on going…and he assumed I would based on our conversation…I couldnt make it …actually I didnt want to go alone so I didnt go. The next few times he came in I didnt really talk to him…he came in with a coworker…the time after that he came to my register said hi sweetheart what is new…I was soo nervous, was shaking the whole time..and thought this is pathetic for a girl in her late 20’s…but he was nice regardless…the next time I saw him I was better…we talked I asked him if he worked at this restaurant that I was going to go to…I knew he did I was just making conversation..he said he did but he wasnt there that day but he might stop by…well I ended up not going that nite..weather was bad. He drove away that day from my job and I noticed him looking at me and of course I looked at him his hot…go figure. The last time I saw him he came to my register despite all the others that were open…and I was actually normal not shaking…we had a short conversation…I made a comment to a coworker how my job at work is to look pretty…I was being playful and the guy said it shouldt be hard for you to do that…and I asked him what he did for thanksiging…and he said he was with his girlfriend and her familyyy…go figure…so yes I am crushed but willg et over it…my question is…did I blow it by being too nervous…so I know for the future…or is he just being friendly and I am making wayy to much out of it…thanks to all the more knowledgeable and experineced daters…need help

Answer #1

WELL MY OPPION TO THIS IF HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND TO START WITH WHY WAS HE OUT FLURTING WITH YOU. IF HE WOULD DO HER LIKE THAT HE WOULD PROBABLY DO YOU THE SAME WAY STAY AWAY. OR JUST BE CAREFUL.

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