Is this guy interested or not?

Dear redb0ricua, This is very much a common occurrence it seems. It is said it takes a man up to 2 weeks before they end up responding after a first date. I do believe they are thinking the same things “am I moving too fast” Did I read into it more than what was there” Todays woman is much more assertive and feel it is acceptable to call or text the man. This usually is much sooner than 2 weeks after the first date. From your question you stated he asked how you were but you didn’t respond? The fact that he took 3 hours to respond is not a big deal..I would suggest you respond to the how are you question if you haven’t already and let him know you’ll be calling him that evening. If you get a negative response then you have you’re answer if you get that’s not a good time I’ll call you then wait it out. Perhaps you’ll get I can’t wait for your call and then the take it from there. Sue..good luck

Be Patient, if he wasn’t interested.. he wouldn’t have ran his fingers through your hair. Give him some time, don’t smother & just be your self, you may have to wait a few days but hey its all good.. Now if he doesn’t call after say 3 weeks, then be worried.. but 3 days, don’t sweat it!