Is he going to leave?

I have a friend who is in love with a boy. But she is lying to him. They have never seen each other. Which seems a little weird. She lives in la and he lives in iowa. Hes moving back down to la in a few weeks. They have been talking for about a year and a half. Shes not confident in herself. I think shes very pretty. He thinks shes some other girl because she sended him a fake picture. Shes seen him on web cam so she knows for a fact he isnt fake. She wants to confess to him but she doesnt think he is still going to want to be with her. He tells her he loves her and shes the best thing that has happen to him. But then again she lied about everything. She told him some stuff about her that wasnt true.

She confessed to me about this a few days ago and I didnt know what to tell her. I was in shocked and im not the best with giving advice. He says he loves her so does it matter how she looks? Unless he fell in love with the girl in the picture she sent him and not her personality. You get me? If he really loves her like he says he does shouldn’t he try to make it work??

Im really clueless about this whole situation. But I want to help my friend out. I can tell this is really hurting her because once hes in la shes going to have to stop talking to him or confess and hope he forgives her and still wants to talk to her. What advice can you give my friend?

Answer #1

honestly the best thing for her to do is is to separate herself from him. just forget about him. you can’t build a healthy relationship out of something that was a lie straight from the beginning. tell her to find a new boyfriend.

Answer #2

Cyber-Love is bad for a start.

But tell me this, if the guy is kinda cute (I cant tell because I have a penis :P) he will most likely be interested in looks that equal his, if shes around the same he wont mind either way. If she loves him like you say, she will know exactly what to do when the time comes (thats a skill only a chick can posses!). But if hes one of those arrogant dudes that only goes on looks then its basically going to be over.

Trust me I was one of those dudes till I realized most “hot” girls are the worst thing for a good relationship (no offense hotties, you own!).

Thats all I really have to add, hope it helps.

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