Do you think he's cheating on me?

I have been with a guy for about a little over a year and a half now. in the past he cheated on me ,now he has been treating me hot and cold. one minute he would be very loveyand the next kindof distant.do you think hes cheating on me???

Answer #1

Okay if he’s cheated on you before, why the hell did you take him back? He did it once and he’s probably doing it again. You took him back the first time he cheated on you, and that showed him that you’d take him back again. If you really want to know if he’s cheating on you, ask him. Just flat out, ask him.

Answer #2

I had a boyfriend in the past that cheated on me. I took him back and he did it again,and again. Once a cheater always a cheater.You desurve so much beater than that. I know its hard but move on. I did and it payed off. I know have a wonderful guy that trates me right. A nice guy will come along give it time its worth it.

Answer #3

If he has cheated before, why even be with him? Obviously he is not trust worthy, and most guys who cheat once and have been forgiven.. WILL CHEAT AGAIN! So yes it very likely that he still is… And if he is.. What will you do about it? Stick with him, while he cheats? Again… and again? It sounds like you deserve someone loyal who will treat you right. Who really wants to be taken on an emotional rollercoaster ride..?

Answer #4

Anytime you take a cheater back, you’ve essentially taught them that they can sleep with somebody else and you’ll take them back. Even if you manage to get past the lies, and the heartache, a cloud will always hang over your relationship. You’ll never truly feel cherished, or completely loved. And you deserve better than that, don’t you? Why torture yourself with feelings of self-doubt and insecurity? See, now your asking if he’s cheating because of his behavior. Love isnt suppose to make you feel this way. It should make you feel good about yourself. Either he loves you, or he doesnt. Theres no inbetween.

Answer #5
  • rubbing temples *

Why is this such a common topic?

Answer #6

thats hard to tell.. men are complicated.. talkto him about him but dont accuse him..

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