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Is Bondage/ S&m Dangerous?.

I Went On A Date With A Man And Afterwards We Went To His House And Chatted Some, There He Told Me He Was In To Bondage/s&m. He Mentioned He Gave A Girl Lacerations On Her Body, @that He Has Whips And Cuffs And All These Things, ropes etr.. I am inclined to explore s& m further but He kind of scared me.He seemingly has a lot of money and sometimes his family stays at this particular home he has. He mentioned his sister has a dog that is why he has a dog cage but then later on mentioned he had a girlfriend who liked to be put into dog cages. He does not have a dog. I am a 4’ 9 girl and hes mentioned he loves small women I hope not for the reason to put them in there. I bit a bit freaked out he might force me to do something I dont want to or even harm me. I dont know if he mentioned all these things because those are his intentions with me. Im not sure if I should continue or I am just scared that this fetish is new and strange to me and thats why im so freaked out or does anyone think I have reason to be worried?

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Answer #1

If you are uncomfortable with the situation that it is not something that you should explore. There is nothing wrong with BDSM when and I stress this when it is performed between two consenting adults. You must be comfortable with the person and not worried that he will do something that you do not want to happen. Msg me if you want to

Answer #2

you do have a reason to be worried if you fear him you should get out as soon as you can trust your gut before something does happen and you wont be able to stop okay

Answer #3

get away from him!!!

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