is 14 and 21 too big of an age difference?

You shouldn’t do anything about it. 7 years is not that big of an age difference when BOTH of the people involved are above the age of consent. But when one of them is under it then you end up with problems. If the relationship turns sexual (in any way) the older person could get convicted of corrupting a minor, abusing a minor, statutory rape and a whole bunch of other things that would make that person have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his/her life. Is that fair to the older person when the younger one was willing? No, but that’s the way the law works.
‘ If he likes you then he should wait till you’re 16, if you like him then wait till you’re 16 that way he won’t get into trouble.

Yes. When you get older, this is generally considered okay, but the guy you are talking to is a pedophile, and all he is looking for is sex out of you. Signs of this? He buys you lots of presents, acts really nice and makes you feel really shy with small things like “accidental” touches to the hand or leg etc. Be very careful with him if you do decide to get into a relationship with him, and nomatter how mature you think you are now, in 5 years you will look back and think yourself an idiot. I have done the same thing with myself.

Just be careful.

Yes. When you get older, this is generally considered okay, but the guy you are talking to is a pedophile, and all he is looking for is sex out of you. Signs of this? He buys you lots of presents, acts really nice and makes you feel really shy with small things like “accidental” touches to the hand or leg etc. Be very careful with him if you do decide to get into a relationship with him, and nomatter how mature you think you are now, in 5 years you will look back and think yourself an idiot. I have done the same thing with myself.

Just be careful.

what a creeper!

What the hell is your family doing? They should be protecting you! This guy is a sick fuck.